We have all read posts and blogs about how our thoughts direct our life, negative thoughts will lead us into a downward spiral and positive will lead us into a rosy future where all is wonderful. The reality is that is this were true we would all be living in Utopia. Life will constantly challenge us, test us and check in with us. Is this really your path? What is your motivation? How much do you want this? We will often come to forks in the road, or crossroads and be unsure